There are times when saying “Yes” your child is so much easier than saying “No”, but then again that is so much easier. NOT! Are you thinking of long-term outcomes? Children remember more than you think. If they get away with eating candy this time, they’re going to soon expect that candy every time. Stop this behavior at the beginning.
When you say No, mean it. Don’t hesitate or back down, mean it with a stern voice. If you giggle, brush the bad behavior off or leave it alone, your child is more likely to take advantage of you in the future. Saying No those first 100 times is worth it.
Don’t bribe your child. Telling your child they will get a toy at the next store if they stop teasing their sibling, isn’t the best approach. Bribing your child only allows them to continue doing as they wish and getting away with that bad behavior.
Talk over the incident. Your child may not remember why they are being told No or that they were told No once before. If so, remind them why they cannot stay up late at night or fight with their sister. Help them understand their behavior and the consequences that come with their actions.
When you don’t feel like saying No today, that sets you back one more day from your setting goals with your children’s behavior.
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